A husband is a leader and a leader leads by example not by screaming! You have no right to correct your wife if you are doing same. Some men complain their wives are dirty but they are worse! They harbour dirt and grime, wear dirty, smelly boxers for a week, smelling, stained and sand accumulated socks for 5 days and would eat without brushing their teeth! They do not shave neither do they bath regularly. They come to bed all smelly and bushy and wonder why their wives don't listen to simple instruction!
If you are guilty of same offence, please, don't correct that woman, go correct yourself first then you have mouth to talk. A husband is a leader and a leader leads by example! You earn her respect forever! If you want her to stop hanging out with gossips on the street, lead by example! If you want her to be committed in church, show her by example! If you do not want her to flirt around, be her role model! You want her to be a prayer warrior and a wordsmith, show her by example!
Enough of beating and battering women in the name of correcting them! If you beat your wife, you are sick and needs serious medical check up! You don't beat a grown up adult for God's sake! Enough of African nonsense that makes men irresponsible and turn women to animals!
Lead by example! Teach her by your actions, if she is rude, you be humble and submissive to authority figures above you and she will learn. I'm not saying you should not correct your wife, do so but do it with an example to back it up!
A great husband deserves respect, honour and submission. Your shinning example makes you a great husband. Start today by doing the things you need to do to make your wife a virtuous and glorious woman. You will not fail in Jesus name. Thanks for reading God bless you. Cheers!
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